Well I need some man help.?
Well I’ve been seeing a Ploish guy who has a gf in Poland. it’s along story,(see my questions-’should I fight for him?’ for the whole tale). Anyway, yesterday he accused me of ‘playing’ with him, and said that he misses me and all this stuff. Then he asked me if I love him, and said he was starting to love me!
The thing is, I had had very strong feelings for him, and actually thought i was falling for him, but when I asked about his gf he was always adamant that he would be with her in 6months when she comes over.
So in my head, I backed off, and managed to get it down to a great friend, who i do the horizontal tango with.
We are like the male and female version of each other, so much so, when we meet up we are often wearing similar clothes, we say the same thing at the same time, we think the same. It’s so weird. We even have really unusual tattoos in an odd place, that are almost the same(he has beetles going down his body, I have ladybirds).
Soulmates?
Not sure what you are asking here – but I suspect you want to know if he is worth hanging on to, on the offchance that the other girl will never actually materialise.
I have had a very similar experience and I have to say the other girl DID come to claim her man, he did go off with her but after a few weeks he came back to me – by which time I had moved on.
On balance,though, I think I would hang on in there. He was honest enough with you to tell you the situation at the start, and he is being cautious and sensible in saying he is ‘starting’ to love you rather than being too extravagant with his feelings. I think I would trust him and give it a chance, if he is making you happy. Good luck!
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